Now let’s be honest. Women are complex beings… period. Before I get the wrong impression, I must say that I myself am a woman and I really know how a woman’s mind works.
Someday we want a real gentleman who will do all of these romantic gestures and make us feel like the only girl in the world. The next day, we want a man who is a little less gentle and more, say, “dangerous”.
We want to be dominant one day, and the next day we want to be submissive.
At some point we show you that we love you more than anything, and after a few days we start to question things.
So how on earth can a man know what exactly is going on in a woman’s mind at a certain time, right? How do you know if this woman really loves you?
Should you wait for her to say it or are there other things you need to pay attention to? Hmm …
Some women are not very good at expressing their emotions (which can be a problem)
Yes, the majority of women are really good at expressing their feelings (unlike men), but there are still women who find it difficult to do so.
Some women have been hurt in relationships before, and they might need more time to open up to someone new.
Some women have encountered gamers, engagement phobes, and other types of men who have marked them in one way or another.
These women just need more time to get used to being with you. They need to feel comfortable while sharing things with you. In other words, you need to tell them that they can trust you.
Watch out for any signs that mean she loves you like when she subtly touches you or playfully teases you.
All of these are good signs and mean that she is becoming more and more comfortable with you, so it is only a matter of time that she will fall deeply in love with you.
Men and women fall in love in different ways and rates
The Mars-Venus theory of women and men coming from two different planets might be true after all. Apparently, men and women fall in love in completely different ways and at different rates.
Men tend to fall in love faster than women, and the reason may be biological.
Men say “I love you” faster than women because women are biologically predisposed to be more picky when it comes to choosing potential mates.
Literally, women subconsciously decide to postpone falling in love (if such a thing is even possible) simply because they want to be sure that their potential mate is right for them in so many aspects, from finance to intelligence to the hilt. by personality.
Simply put, women postpone their love until they are sure their partner is fit to have children with them. Of course, not all women want children, and not all relationships lead to having children, which is good.
But, I’m starting to think that this assumption that women prolong their love might actually be TOTALLY true. Why? Because I, myself, and some of my friends, are also too picky about potential mates.
This is exactly the thing what is going on in my head:
No, I don’t want to date this guy because he’s a smoker, even though he’s really handsome. Hmm… no, I don’t want to date this other guy because he seems a little self-centered and too materialistic. I
means, look at his photos showing only his cars and how rich he is.
But what about this guy who texted me recently? He seems to have it all: he’s smart, sweet, handsome, a true gentleman (and he doesn’t smoke!), And he has a job. Yeah, I should really go out with him and see how things go.
Now, will anyone tell me why I would give up on dating a guy just because he’s a smoker? Is it because I subconsciously view smoking as a bad habit both financially and for that person’s health?
But why should I be worried about his health?
Maybe I’m worried about his health because I’m thinking ahead. If we are in a serious relationship or eventually have children, smoking can be a problem.
It is a real revelation. I really think there is some truth in the fact that women postpone their love for biological reasons.
So when a woman finally “decides” to fall in love with you, how will you know? Simple.
If a woman puts your needs first, you know she loves you
Believe me, I have never met a woman who would put a man’s needs first if she wasn’t really in love with him. When a woman falls in love, her nurturing instinct awakens and becomes ten times sweeter and caring.
Over time, she decides to prioritize your needs because her goal is to make you happy. So if you say to a woman who loves you something like: I’m sorry, but I can’t watch the show with you tonight. I would like to be alone for a while.
Then there is a good chance that she does not take offense.
A woman who is truly in love with you is always careful about how you feel about certain things. She needs reciprocity and is ready to compromise with you.
Do you know how hard it is for a woman to choose, say, to postpone her favorite TV show just to cook your favorite food?
A woman in love expresses it in different ways, from cooking your favorite foods to randomly hugging and kissing you.
Pay attention to these little things and you’ll know if she’s really in love with you, or if she needs more time to “decide” to fall in love with you.
A woman definitely loves you if she challenges you to do better
A lot of men have a bad opinion of a woman in love. They believe that a woman in love will support her man no matter what, and rarely contradict him.
Dear men, this is not the definition of being in love. If a woman challenges you in any way she can, it’s not because she hates you … it’s because she really loves you.
When a woman falls in love, she feels it is her duty to make her man the best possible version of himself.
“Behind every successful man, there is a woman.”
This saying is certainly not a coincidence. A woman in love has the power to make her man reach his full potential because her love is so powerful!
Whenever she worries about your habits or provokes you about certain things, know that she is doing it for love and because she believes you can do better.
Here are some other signs that she loves you deeply:
- She remembers all the little details about you. (A woman who is not in love would definitely not care about your favorite chocolate or the like.)
- She wants to impress you. (Do you think we spend so much time styling our hair or sweating our butt at the gym just to impress us?
- Sometimes she gets jealous when you’re around other girls. (A woman who is in love with you will see all the other girls as a threat. It’s in our nature. Sorry, but we can’t help her.)
- She is always there for you. (No, we don’t sit next to our phone waiting for you to text us, but if we really like you, we’ll gladly stop doing what we’re doing for now just to text you.)
As a girl who loves “too much” I can add one last thing: don’t be afraid of our love and don’t try to understand it.