Women are brave soldiers 365 days a year. Women are both sensitive and strong. Women are powerful.
So how do you win a woman’s heart? Do you say those three words to her and keep repeating them for the rest of your life? Do you keep using cheesy pickup lines in the hopes they’ll make her laugh?
Maybe, and maybe not. Winning a woman’s heart is a complex thing. So many artists, writers and other creative minds have struggled to describe the essence of a woman and the beauty of her love.
If you’re a man reading this, winning a woman’s heart shouldn’t just happen on special occasions. It should become your way of life, because it’s not something you do once and then stop doing.
Each new day gives you the opportunity to show your loved one how much you care about them. Time is the most precious thing. So how are you going to use it?
It’s time to bring back that kind of vintage love!
I don’t know if it’s just me or if some of you also get goosebumps when you think of vintage sweetheart. Writing letters, old-fashioned courtesy, serenades, lipstick is an essential part of a woman’s handbag …
All of those things were replaced by instant messaging overnight. Times have changed dramatically.
I have a feeling the only time a man is interested in wooing a woman is if he plays hard to get it. It’s like his brain is telling him: Hey, you should step up your game because this modern court obviously isn’t working!
And then a man decides it’s time to be more romantic, more caring, and more gentlemanly. Her main goal is to grab this woman’s attention and win her heart.
Now the question is: Would you do the same if she weren’t playing hard to get it?
Maybe, and maybe not. Every man is different, and some have these innate gentlemanly ways while others are more laid back.
But I’m sure all of you, my friends, will agree with me that it’s high time to bring back that kind of vintage love (at least in some segments).
Sadly, we can’t ignore that we live in a modern age where social media is prevalent and sets the pace for everything else, including romances.
We can’t just throw away our smartphones, start writing letters to ourselves and taking pictures with a Polaroid camera (although that would be really great).
Plus, I still have a Polaroid camera that reminds me of the good old days when romance had a whole different meaning and wasn’t measured by how many selfies you have together.
But what we can do is incorporate elements of modern and vintage romance and make these modern times a little warmer. We can always send each other romantic love poems, love quotes, love letters, etc.
It’s time to master the art of being a modern, vintage gentleman, because there is no shortcut to winning a woman’s heart!
Dear men, when you act like gentlemen, we find it irresistibly attractive. And no, being a gentleman doesn’t just mean being a nice guy because it’s so much more than that.
It means being confident, showing respect to all people, regardless of their social status, and treating a woman as she deserves to be treated.
Here are some characteristics of any modern and vintage gentleman:
He remembers the little things.
If I tell a man that I like certain things, I usually wait until he remembers them. Lately I’ve been lowering my expectations because men rarely remember the little things.
Guess what? It is time to change that.
If she has a special way of doing things, be sure to memorize them. If she told you what her favorite chocolate or flower is, remember it because gentlemen remember the little things.
They know how important these things are to a woman, so they don’t take a shortcut to win a woman’s heart.
He doesn’t expect things to be done
A true gentleman never expects a woman to make him dinner, wash his clothes, or do other things his mother did for him. A modern gentleman has no problem doing these things himself every now and then.
Plus, he never forgets to show his gratitude and appreciation for everything a woman does for him on a daily basis, from small to big things.
He surprises her all the time and not just on special occasions
A gentleman does not send a bouquet of flowers once or twice a year and does not check off his list of romantic activities for the year. Instead, he makes sure to surprise his wife all the time.
He kisses a woman’s forehead, holds her hand, hugs her when she least expects it, makes her coffee, and does all the other little things that make her feel special.
He doesn’t wait for his wife to do everything or be the only one to initiate things. Instead, he rolls up his sleeves and makes sure to win this woman’s heart every day.
He is constantly looking for new ways to woo a woman.
Some men think they have become dating professionals after reading a few articles on how to win a woman’s heart. Being a gentleman is not something you once mastered and never bother to update again.
A true gentleman is constantly looking for new ways to make his wife feel appreciated, loved and cared for. He is open to improving his courting skills every day.
A modern, vintage gentleman never underestimates the power of love poems
Gentlemen know that women are emotional and sensitive beings. They know that winning a woman’s heart is a process and a combination of kind words and deeds.
If you want to be one of the rightful modern gentlemen, stop doing what the contemporary media suggests. If you’re married, don’t forget to surprise your other half with some of the most romantic love poems for your wife.
You can also write her a love letter in which you’ll explain how her love makes you feel and let her know how grateful you are to have her in your life.
It is true that sometimes words are not enough, but if you choose the right ones, you will be one step closer to winning her heart.
Turning your feelings and thoughts into words is no easy task. It takes time, devotion, and effort to speak your mind and your heart. Fortunately, being a modern gentleman has its perks.
All of these inspirational love quotes and poems are just one click away. Once you dive into the sea of romantic love poems, you will realize how powerful words are.
Saying “I love you” are just three words, but they have the power to make your loved one’s heart ten times warmer.
A love poem may be only a few verses long, but it has the power to brighten your loved one’s day in seconds.
Never underestimate the power of love poems.
Never underestimate the power of vintage romantic gestures.
The most precious things in life can only be felt with your heart. One of the most beautiful poems for her by Luis Brillantes proves all this:
Someone in me
There is a person in me
who is deeply in love with you
a person who would sail on any sea
whatever he would do, just for you
He fears nothing
completely nothing at all
because for you, he will overcome all his fears
to save you from all these tears
This person that I wish to bring out someday
so i can finally say
these three words that I keep inside me
who tried to break free
I know the time will come
when i can finally tell you
these three wonderful words, which are
I love you.