Creamy matte “divine wine” lipstick, lashes that perfectly accentuate her eyes, lavish hair that breathes the summer breeze, an elegant outfit that demands compliments.
A woman like this is sure to grab every man’s attention, but things aren’t that simple when it comes to looking good.
Attractive lips mean nothing if a woman doesn’t choose the right words that will pique her interest.
The accented eyes mean nothing if a woman doesn’t know how to smile with them. An elegant outfit means nothing if a woman does not wear herself with grace and confidence.
Any woman can get a man’s attention, but dating takes more effort.
This isn’t one of those guides with tons of rules on how to act like a lady, play damsel in distress, etc.
It’s about becoming a better version of yourself and boosting your dating game!
The art of seduction is more than “dressing to impress”.
What is seduction? What does it mean to be an attractive woman who has the power to win over any man?
Seduction means a lot of different things to different people, but one thing remains the same: Being attractive is about more than accentuating your physical appearance.
Let’s be honest. While you and I don’t look like Irina Shayk, that doesn’t mean we can’t be as (or at least partially) as good looking as her.
You might not have flawless skin, a perfect hourglass figure, or lavish hair, and that doesn’t make you any less attractive.
Seduction is a combination of many other factors such as the way you carry yourself, your sense of humor, your voice, your personality, your flirtatious skills, etc.
Being attractive does not mean having the ideal clothing size or blindly following the “beauty rules” imposed by society.
It’s about accentuating your positives (whether it’s your sense of humor or whatever) and feeling good about yourself.
To seduce a man, you must first seduce yourself
If you want to learn how to seduce a man, you must first learn to be yourself. How do you learn to be yourself? Simple.
First of all, forget about all those expensive things that will make you “instantly pretty”. Forget about those imposed beauty standards and focus on yourself.
What are the things about yourself you love the most? Do you have any weird habits?
Are you nerdy, curious, outgoing, generous, caring? Are you a sister, aunt, a woman who has been through a lot in life?
Now what are some things you would like to change about yourself? Do you think you could be less critical or listen to others more? Do you think you could be more patient?
To seduce yourself is to come into contact with your essence, your real self. To seduce a man, you have to know who you are and what you are offering.
You should know that you are a unique, self-confident and courageous woman because these are the traits of a girl who can seduce any man.
Self-confidence is something you can’t make or buy
You can try to pretend to be sure of yourself, but I warn you that you will end up feeling embarrassed and disappointed in yourself.
No, you can’t buy the most expensive outfit and expect it to magically increase your confidence level.
Your self-confidence comes from inside you and not from other trivial things. Fall in love with your imperfections and you will increase your self-confidence.
Show the world that you are proud of who you are and any man will win you over.
The first thing a man notices about you isn’t your outfit, it’s your VIBES!
I don’t know if I’ve emphasized enough the importance of feeling good about yourself.
I think people don’t pay as much attention to how they feel about themselves because they are primarily concerned with how others will perceive them.
Do you prefer to look good before you feel comfortable? Do you prefer to wear sneakers rather than high heels? Are you more of a tomboy than a girly girl? Do you like to drink beer rather than cocktails?
All of these things are part of you. They make you who you are.
What I’m trying to say is that the first thing a man notices about you isn’t going to be your sneakers or your high heels. The first thing they’ll notice about you will be your vibe.
Let’s say you are wearing something that doesn’t match your style and you don’t feel comfortable. It will make you frustrated and you will not be able to relax.
So how can you seduce someone if you don’t feel good about yourself in the first place?
Your positive vibrations are the most powerful technique of seduction!
A genuine smile has the power to seduce any man. This will show her that you don’t take yourself too seriously, that you are in a good mood and that you are fun to be around.
When you smile, be sure to make eye contact for a few seconds. The best thing about smiling is that there are so many different variations and interpretations.
There are shy smiles, flirtatious smiles, flattered smiles (when he compliments you) or big smiles when you laugh at his cheesy jokes.
Each of these elements is equally powerful.
To seduce a man, you must learn to flirt with both your words and your body language.
It’s sad how we pay so much attention to what we’re going to wear instead of thinking about what we’re going to say.
Of course, it’s impossible to predict the flow of the conversation, but it’s important to say the right words at the right time.
Because these words work as trigger words when it comes to seducing men. So how do you flirt with words? Here is my technique, so maybe that can help you too.
Whenever I talk to a guy I love (whether it’s virtually or in the real world), I pay special attention to making things interesting and mysterious.
I rarely say the first thing that comes to my mind because I want to make things a little more complex so that he has more fun deciphering them. Here is an example of an SMS:
Him: Hey, what are you doing now?
You: Hmm… and why do you want to know?
Him: I want to know everything about you.
You: Okay, I’ll tell you in a few hours, and by then you can keep guessing …
Him: You will be my death. (At least that’s what he’ll think.)
So what happened here? He expressed a desire to know what you are doing but instead of telling him that right away you were lovingly mysterious.
He’ll simmer for a while until you finally tell him what you’re doing, which means he’ll be thinking of you.
You see, seduction is not about being constantly present, responding to it the same second you receive a text, and so on.