Let me guess. You feel like your heart is going to explode every second because of the intense feelings you have for your loved one.
When you look them in the eye, you feel like they’re the only person in the world who really knows your real you, including all of your imperfections and weird habits.
You love them more than words can ever tell, and sometimes you feel like those three words just aren’t enough.
In fact, when you are madly in love with someone, it becomes really difficult (if not impossible) to express your intense feelings for them.
I understand you perfectly and want you to memorize the following sentence: The best ways to say I love you are usually hidden in the little things around you.
You probably want to give your loved one the whole universe without knowing that they would settle for a cup of coffee in the morning and a hug.
When you just focus on the big gestures, you miss out on all those sweet little things that say I love you in the most romantic way possible!
Creativity is the key element in every romantic gesture
Just think about all these inventions, from technology to other areas of life. What is the one thing that all successful things have in common? It’s creativity.
It might sound a bit off topic, but creativity is an important part of romantic gestures as well.
Anyone can say these three words or repeat them thousands of times a day, but it takes time and dedication to do something more meaningful.
Now don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with saying “I love you” to your partner, but if these three words are the pinnacle of your romantic endeavors, then you might have a problem.
Implementing creativity in all aspects of your relationship will help keep the spark alive!
Every relationship is unique.
There are some things you can’t influence (like long-distance work relationships in other states), but keeping the spark alive in a relationship should be every couple’s top priority.
That said, here are some of the biggest silent killers in every relationship:
- Repetition in all aspects of your relationship
- Lack of healthy communication
- Lack of creative and romantic gestures
Suppose your favorite romantic gesture is to kiss your loved one in the morning and make him some coffee.
If you’ve been doing this for a while now, your partner has probably gotten used to it and it is now part of your routine and routine.
The key word here is ROUTINE. Repetition, along with the lack of creative gestures, is one of the biggest silent killers in every relationship. When something becomes routine, it loses its original value.
It can’t even be considered a romantic gesture anymore as it’s something you do every day, and the more you do it the more it becomes something the other partner expects from you.
Partners should be surprised, but shouldn’t expect romantic gestures
That doesn’t mean you have to go out of your way every day to do something remarkable for your partner. For example, if you brew coffee for them every morning, try adding some extra creative elements to it.
I love you quotes can help you! You can choose any of these quotes, write it down on a piece of paper, and put it next to their coffee cup.
You can do this every day and it will always succeed in preserving creativity. How? ‘Or’ What? Because each subsequent quote will be different from the one they read yesterday.
Here is what I do. Every time my boyfriend leaves for work I give him a big hug, and once I wrote a list of reasons I love him on a piece of paper and put it in his pocket.
Until later in the day, he didn’t realize what I did. Then he texted me, saying it was one of the most romantic things anyone has ever done for him. For coming up with such a creative gesture, I was really proud of myself.
Best of all, EVERYBODY can only do this if they want to. You can write your own reasons why you like your special or you can use some of the following beautiful reasons why I like you as inspiration:
- I love you because of the way you hold me in your arms.
- I love that I miss you every time you’re not around.
- I love you because of the simple little things that make my day.
- I love you because for me you always take time.
- I love you because you are my biggest supporter.
Think about and write down everything your partner does for you on a daily basis. Don’t just write down the big things, but also focus on the little things that brighten up your day.
Think about how their presence makes you feel. You can’t go wrong with these reasons why I love you as most of them are simple phrases that express your feelings in a cute way.
Making your loved one feel special isn’t really as hard as we think. You don’t have to be a professional writer to express your feelings. Everything you need is ready to go.
The best way to say that I love you is to do it from the heart
Stop thinking that your partner might not like some of your new romantic gestures. If you are doing it from the heart, there is nothing you should worry about.
Here’s another romantic gesture I made the other day for my boyfriend. We talked about different types of kissing, and my boyfriend said something like: There are two types of kissing. The ones you think about and the ones you don’t want.
I replied: there are two types of kisses. The ones you steal and other you want to steal. He laughed and soon got to work.
Later that day, I was writing an article on types of kissing, and I wrote in the first sentence what he said to me that day. I took a screenshot of this article and sent it to her.
He replied: I am deeply touched. Thank you my love. And … that’s the power of creativity!