The twenties are the best part of our lives. This is the time when we become completely selfish and make the wrong decisions without even thinking about its consequences. However, this is completely natural and correct. After all, we all need to learn how life works. It is our mistakes that teach us memorable life lessons. Therefore, a person should avoid relationships. Let’s read the reasons to avoid relationships in your twenties.
The twenties are the time when we make or break. When talking about a serious relationship, you should deliberately avoid it. It may seem like everything you’ve always wanted, but it isn’t.
A serious relationship is a decisive factor in your twenties and here are a few reasons that justify it.
1. You are still shuffling jobsSave Pin
Maybe you don’t even have a job right now. Since you are in your twenties, you mix internships and temporary jobs.
You are at an early stage in your career and nothing can seriously ruin it.
You first need a stable job, and a serious relationship is a breaking point here.
2. You are not ready for commitments.
How can you be ready for commitments when you don’t even have a stable job? (See point no. 1) Your partner may ask you for a serious commitment, but you know very well that you cannot afford it. Right? You will probably need more time for this until everything cools down.
3. You are Selfish
During this decade of your life, you are selfish and your whole decision revolves around one person – it’s YOU!
You don’t even care what your partner might think of your decisions, and this will undoubtedly lead to a – Break Up!
And yes, grief in your twenties hurts too much. More than the one you experienced as a teenager.
4. Marriage? WTF!
You would probably react the same way when your partner talks about getting married. Either way, no one can afford a marriage. You don’t have a stable job, a stable life or maybe you don’t even see it as marriage material.
5. You get attracted to almost every smart guy/girl. Pin
Are you not attracted? “No”? You are not only lying to me, but you are lying to yourself. You will be attracted to almost all sexy guys and girls.
Sometimes you might even doubt that your PRESENT PARTNER is hot enough and right for you.
Well, everyone wants a sexy partner, and that’s fine.
6. You have more time to take care of yourself.
Well, honestly, you can’t even take care of your favorite plants in their twenties.
How can you take care of your partner? You just can’t.
Even if you do, you will feel frustrated with so many responsibilities on your head.
7. You are not able to keep promises.
Even if you do your best, there will always be times when you simply won’t be able to keep your promises, mainly due to unavoidable circumstances.
Your broken promises will harm your partner. Well, sometimes you will also be on the other side.
You may or may not endure heartbreaks from time to time. Your heart breaks will inevitably lead to a decrease in productivity, which could make you get fired too !?
How will you be able to bear two sorrows? Oh darn!
8. You are Impatient
You are young and you do not have enough patience to let time do its work. If you like a girl or a guy, you will just be in a hurry to go and propose. But you should already know that it may not work.
Similarly, if you are already in a relationship, you want to taste all the waters. (No matter what it means to you!) What could be the worst decision? Patience at the right time is all you need.
9. Not enough time for Serious Relationships.
Travel trips, vacations, business meetings, looking for a new job and hundreds of other things are lined up to suck up your precious time in your twenties.
If you are in a serious relationship, you should dedicate your time to it, and I don’t think that is even possible at this stage of life.
10. You are not ready for “Sacrifices.”Save Pin
You have just started to make small “sacrifices” of your happiness to achieve your dreams. However, once you have a serious relationship, you will have to make hundreds of sacrifices, just to keep your partner happy. Will you be able to do it? I suppose not. Do you want to go out with your friends? But the partner does not want you to leave! You will have to sacrifice this plan for the happiness of your partner.
These are some of the business breakers to enter into a serious relationship. There are hundreds of other reasons, but I just can’t blog them. If you are still considering diving into a serious relationship, please keep these things in mind.