I’m sure all women who read this will agree with me on this one:
When we really love a man we can’t help but want him to miss him all the time and really want himself.
We want to be that woman who will turn her world upside down and make her life more colorful.
To make him feel good we want to do all those little things (but at the same time, we don’t want to overdo it, so he doesn’t take us for granted).
We want to treat him like a king and be treated like a queen in return. But how do you do all of this?
Do you need to take a class on how to make a man miss you and really want you? Well, that’s actually not a bad idea, but it doesn’t have to be. Why?
Because men are simple creatures. You don’t have to do everything you can to make a man miss you.
All you have to do is send them the right texts that will grab their attention and make them think of you when you’re not around!
A man falls in love when he miss you
That is true. It is generally known that men live for CHASE. They like challenges and feel like they are the winners.
So if a woman is willing to do something for a man (especially since the very beginning of the romance), he won’t be interested in pursuing her any longer.
If you constantly strive to do things for him, you won’t give him space to do his job, which is chasing you, and that’s why he might lose interest in you.
A man falls in love when he sees that he has to make an effort to win you over. A man falls in love when he gets some space and time!
You miss a man in your absence
This is the most painful lesson I have learned so far.
Yes, I was one of those women who believed that always being around and doing whatever he wanted me to do (or whatever I thought he wanted me to do) was the recipe for making me miss him and really want me.
Boy, was I wrong. It’s a sure-fire recipe for disaster that will make her forget you instead of craving your presence.
The truth is, a man misses you in your absence, not in your presence. There isn’t a single thing in the world that will make you miss it when you are with him.
It is in your absence that he realizes how much he misses and wants you. If you are wondering why this is so, I will try to explain it in the simplest way possible.
Have you noticed that all the rare things in the world (like diamonds) are worth so much more than other things? The reason why this is so is that these rare things require a lot of effort.
The same applies to you. If you are always available and ready for anything for a man, you will no longer be rare and he will stop making efforts to pursue you.
But, if you suddenly become unavailable, he will see you as a diamond again (something rare), and he will find that to win you over he has to step up his game again.
He will start missing all those little things you usually do for him, your cute habits, your looks, your quirks, your scent and your touch. He will want to recover his little treasure and he will be ready to do anything to accomplish it.
So, yes, a man misses you in your absence because of the fear of losing you. The most powerful emotion of all is the fear of losing someone.
While you are missing him, here’s what you need to do!
Of course, the easiest thing you can do is go away for a few days, turn off your phone, and “forget” it. Unfortunately (or fortunately) things don’t work that way.
If you want him to miss you in your absence, you have to do it the right way. You have to make him want your presence!
So how are you going to do it? By texting her that will make her want and miss you even more, of course.
It’s true that men are visual creatures, but that doesn’t mean you have to be around 24/7 for them to want your presence.
To make them miss you in your absence, all you need to do is help them visualize things and make them feel something.
Do not mistake yourself. That’s not to say you should only send hot texts to make her want and miss you.