Who is an introvert? How do you date one?
We find ourselves lost in a conversation. We end up listening more than we should. When the person in front of us brags and it gets nauseous, we remain silent and pray that the person finally stops and escapes. But we never had the courage to ask him to stop. With Yes Dates, let’s see how to handle such a situation.
I’m talking about you? So you’re an introvert.
People like us, who are reluctant and introverted, find it very difficult to maneuver around conversations. It’s a severe handicap and we don’t like it.
The dictionary defines introverts in many ways, but asks any introvert and will tell you that they have trouble expressing themselves. An introvert will not necessarily speak. He can speak normally, but he will still find it difficult to express himself.
In group discussions, we score fewer points. At a party, we silently take a corner and have our own drink. We hate noisy mouths, demonstrations, patrons, liars, dramatic queens and stupid people. But we can never tell them so on their faces.
IN THE GROUP DISCUSSIONS, WE NOTE LESS BRANDS AT A PARTY, WE SILENTLY CORNER AND NOURISH OUR OWN BEVERAGE. WE HATE LOUDMOUTHS, SHOWOFFS, PATRONIZERS, Liars, DRAMA QUEENS and STUPID PEOPLE. BUT WE CAN NEVER TELL THEM ON THEIR FACE.
It’s all in their heads
Introverts have their own world where the conversation takes place mainly in the person’s mind. An introvert will mistreat you, slap you, ask you to move away and even kick your face…. but the whole drama is going on in his mind.
It’s not the worst … the worst part about being an introvert is that his lips close automatically in front of his crush.
I personally lost count of the number of overwrites that I have not been able to have to date, simply because I could not open my mouth and speak when I was supposed to or I had to. .
Ask any introvert what is the biggest relationship problem and they will tell you that they are unable to express themselves. An introvert expects his partner (or smash or anything applicable) to speak from his mind. This is the golden moment for any introvert and you will see him nodding vigorously and saying “Yes, that’s what I was trying to tell you”.
But this rarely happens. Few people can understand what the introvert means and more often than not, an introvert is misunderstood. People think he is a coward, he is lazy and sometimes he does not have the courage to defend the truth.
But this rarely happens. Few people can understand what the introvert means and more often than not, an introvert is misunderstood. People think he is a coward, he is lazy and sometimes he does not have the courage to defend the truth.
It is nothing of the above, but it is simply unable to say it.
This “problem” needs your empathy. Imagine a song stuck in your head the longest but you don’t get the lyrics. You keep looking for it, waiting for someone to tell you, but no one can.
Does this happen to you? Yes? Now let’s multiply this problem. Let’s make it a regular business. Every other day, you get a song in your head, but you can’t get the lyrics anywhere. Your mind is consumed by music but there are no words to express it.
Be empathetic
Chances are that you already identify with it or start to feel the pain. Either way, you now feel what an introvert looks like.
Building relationships for an introvert is difficult, but not impossible. But still, it is challenging for them more than for normal men who can express themselves freely.
From time to time, we get partners who understand our feelings and help us to let the words escape. We sing the song because we are finally told what the lyrics are.
Do you know an extreme introvert? Well, if you want to go out with him, then be their words and watch how they sing the song for you.
Introverts also have feelings, more often than not they are more powerful than you.
