OK, if a guy likes you, none of these things are going to totally kill your chances. But the vast majority of the time, these are movements that women insist on doing because they think they are engaging, and guys hate them because they are confusing.
Consider these movements as the equivalent of the particle acceleration flirt. Of course, you can do great stuff with it, or you can create a black hole so massive that it engulfs the entire planet.
1. TAKING RELATIONSHIP TO PUBLIC
Guys get upset when their girlfriends or their future dates discuss their personal affairs with others on social media platforms.
2. USING A BABY VOICE
The problem here is twofold: beyond being boring, it suggests that we find babies sexually attractive. Please do not do this under any circumstances.
3. ACTING KIDDISH AS A WAY OF INITIATING CONVERSATION
When you play stupid in the hope that we will stop, for example, to help you find a parking meter, you run the risk of thinking that you don’t know how a parking meter works. And do you really want to date someone who agrees to date someone who doesn’t really know how a parking meter works? Think about it.
4. ALWAYS BEING HARD TO GET
The games are good, but nobody wants to unravel the mysteries day and night. He will chase you if he is interested, but don’t keep him too long in the guessing game.
5. FLIPPING YOUR HAIR CONSTANTLY
A well-timed hair jump can be hot, but doing it constantly just makes us think you have a weird tic.
6. TAKING OUR HATS AND WEARING THEM
What you consider to “tease our hat and wear it” is what we consider to “steal our shit”. Yes, it can be super cute if we know you. If we don’t know you, you’re just someone at a bar who takes things from us.
7. FAKING A COMMON INTEREST
It’s great to share a common interest with your partner, and it’s also great when there’s no common ground to talk about it. But, it is not good and it is also extremely annoying when you try to simulate it. Do not make us believe that you are a liar.
8. FORCING US TO DECODE EMOJI TEXTS
Love hearts and smiling faces work. We get them. But what do the palm tree, the monkey and the lady who received a head massage have to do with anything? And then there are 90 other characters. Is it gibberish? We shouldn’t have to spend an hour figuring this out.
9. TRYING TO MAKE JEALOUS
Can you make us jealous if you flirt with another guy at the bar? Yes. Do you also want to start a fight or just make us want to not talk to you? Probably. Who likes to feel jealous?
10. PLAYFUL PINCHING, PUNCHING, SLAPPING, ETC
It’s not cute. It is nothing more than a mentally trying thing for us men. If all you want is a little attention, there is a bible on how to get it.
11. DAMSEL-IN-DISTRESS MOVE
If there’s no need for help but you’re still asking for it, you annoy the guy’s shit. You may think it’s cute, but the guys don’t think so. It annoys a lot of guys, if not all. Do not act or make a simple problem an emergency.