Another romance is heating up in the Hamptons, but are Jesse and Lexi still together from Summer House? Their relationship may have taken a dramatic turn.
Jesse Solomon and Lexi Wood met on Season 9 of Bravo’s reality TV series, Summer House. They hit it off on day one with Jesse even joking during the first weekend that he was already in love with Lexi. The two seeme to hit a road bump later in the season when Lexi told Jesse that she had a “tendency to be jealous,” which raised some red flags for him.
“I’m definitely the type that like, I want to make sure that this is a thing where we’re only getting to know each other. It just makes things more like, black and white. And I don’t like gray,” Lexi told Jesse about being exclusive, to which Jesse responded, “”Well, it feels like I’ve only known you for like less than a week, so it’s probably like a little soon.” Lexi replied, “Like I’m not saying it has to be soon. I just don’t like to share. I definitely have the tendency to be a jealous type. I’m not a casual dater at all. Like I’m a relationship sex girl.”
Are Jesse and Lexi still together from Summer House?
It looks like the sun has set on this Summer House romance. As Redditors discovered, Lexi does not follow Jesse on Instagram, so it’s likely they’re not still together and not on good terms. (Jesse, for his part, does follow Lexi on Instagram.)
Multiple Reddit users also claimed to have seen Jesse on the celebrity dating app, Raya, further confirming that he and Lexi aren’t still together. “I saw Jesse on Raya earlier this week so they’re def not together,” one user wrote. Another commented, “I also saw him on there this week.”
An anonymous source also told gossip Instagram account Bravo & Cocktails in September 2024 that Jesse and Lexi had split. “Jesse (Summer House) met a girl and told her that him & Lexi (the newbie he dated this summer, eve met the parents!) are done and he will be able to call her after Labor Day,” the source said.
While it’s unclear when Jesse and Lexi broke up, they were still together as of August 7, 2024, when Jesse revealed on his Amazon Live that he was “seeing someone.” “I am seeing someone. I know, it’s pretty crazy. Yeah. That’s all I need to say about that. It’s a change of pace, for sure. I’m getting used to it. I’m learning, I’m growing. But it’s great. I’m super happy,” he said at the time.
He continued, “The girl that I’m seeing right now, we have a shared note. For better or for worse. Any time we see something that we want to do, we just throw it in the note. And when we do something, we cross it off the note. And it kind of just keeps it fun when you find things that you’re excited about.”
Jesse went on to reveal that he “recently deleted [his] dating apps.” “I know what you’re thinking – ‘That’s crazy for Jesse Solomon, the guy who once went on three dates in a single week,’” he said. “But, when you find somebody you like, you got to leave the dating apps behind you. They’re also very distracting. And I found that it was more of an entertainment thing for people than a real life meeting up and dating situation.”
Jesse’s Summer House co-stars, Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke, also hinted at Jesse and Lexi’s “messy” breakup in an interview with Us Weekly in February 2025. “He rose up as quickly as he burned down,” Amanda said, giving Jesse the nickname of “messy Jesse.”
Kyle, for hs part, described Jesse as a “goofball” and a “big flirt,” which gets him into trouble with Lexi. “On one hand, he doesn’t mean any harm, but on the other hand, if you’re pursuing someone, you’re going to get yourself in a whole bunch of hot water,” Kyle said.
Amanda added, “Ultimately Jesse just had to learn from his own mistakes. He had to learn by doing and he had to figure it out for himself and realize that we are always right. And by we, I mean me, Paige [DeSorbo], Ciara and Lindsay [Hubbard]. The advice we were giving, he should listen to us.”
Amanda also seemed to confirm Jesse and Lexi broke up by comparing their romance to the fling between Jesse’s best friend, West Wilson, and Ciara Miller in Season 8. “[I was like], ‘Have you talked to him at all?’ This is the path you’re going down right now,” Amanda said of Jesse not learning from West’s mistakes.
Summer House streams on Peacock.
