A Letter To The Girl Who Tries So Hard But Gets Nowhere

Honey,

I see your effort. I know how hard you try. I know you feel like you’re going around in circles repeating the same things. I know you think it’s all in vain because you’re not going anywhere. You don’t think you’re going anywhere.

I want to take you in my arms. I want to assure you that everything will be fine as long as you are by my side. From your eyes, I want to wipe the tears.

I want to look deep into your swollen glassy eyes while gently stroking you on your cheek. I want to smile at you because I know that everything will be fine as long as you are by my side.

I will respect your hard work and appreciate you. I know that at the end of the day you need a rest. I know you’ve worked hard and don’t have to go home and start over because of me.

I want you to know that I know you are doing the best you can.

You know any change you make is like a little drop in the ocean, but you will never stop.

You know you are making a difference. You want to inspire others to do the same because we can make a change as we are stronger together.

I understand it’s hard to be you. I know you doubt yourself on a daily basis. You always wonder if the cause you are fighting for is right, if you are going to make it happen.

I will be your support and you can lean on me whenever you feel tired and feel like you can’t take it anymore. You can believe me because I will help you.

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You are not making the effort in vain. You are not going around in circles and going nowhere. You just crave it because you have too much on your plate and without support – at least, not until now.

I know you are doing your best to make everyone around you happy. But be careful because you are neglecting yourself in the process. You take the pain, the stress, and the pressure, and you won’t let anyone see it. You keep pretending everything is fine when in fact, you are about to break.

I am proud of you and all that you have accomplished so far. But slow down a bit. Things don’t have to be done right away.

The world won’t fall apart because you took a day off to take care of yourself. This pressure you feel is going to tear you apart.

This pressure is not real. It’s in your head and if you organize your thoughts and goals in your head, you will find that you have all the time in this world to do whatever you want and you will not burn yourself out.

I beg you, slow down. Take a break and take care of yourself. You have to respect your body and your mind, and you should not push too hard because you won’t be able to do this for so long.

It’s best to get some rest now and keep going full blast when you’re ready.

Not even for a second, I doubt you. I know you are capable of great things and they are yet to come. I don’t want you to give away all your money and use it all up front.

I want you to continue because there are so many beautiful things in front of you. Celebrate your victories, work hard, but be smart and take a break when you need to.

Everything will turn out the way you want it in the end. And it’s not the end if it doesn’t. Wait and see.

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