Do you have unfulfilled dreams or goals that you should have achieved before you got married? Do you have any regrets about your single life?
I do. Well, maybe no regrets, more like a few messages that I would happily go back in time and say to myself, so that poor naive girl wouldn’t allow anyone to hurt or abuse her.
I would also like to tell her that she will never be more carefree than she is now. If I knew at the time, maybe I would use this time better.
It’s too late for me now. Unfortunately I can’t go back to the past and change it, but maybe it can help.
Yes you, a beautiful and amazing single girl who dreams of wearing a white dress very soon.
Well, stop dreaming. You are just wasting your time. Get up and enjoy your single life. There are so many things you should do before you marry.
Embrace your single life and don’t waste a second because time flies. If you don’t use this precious time well, you will certainly regret it one day.
1. You’ll never be perfect and that’s perfectly normal
I always tried to be the best at everything, so that I could find someone who was also the best. I was trying to find the perfect man.
Well that was a huge mistake.
There is nothing like a perfect person. You can’t find one or become one, and that’s the truth. This illusion made me suffer a lot and missed a lot of good people.
2. Enjoy every moment of your single life
Tick tock, tick tock, tick tock… The clock clicks constantly and time flies too quickly.
Life is really a fastball. You find yourself married with kids before you know it, and just like that, everything changes in a second.
Of course, it is also a great time in life, but it is certainly more difficult. Your single life is much more carefree and that is why you should enjoy it, enjoy it and enjoy it.
3. Love yourself first
Never love another person more than you love yourself. This is how you empower them to control you and your life.
Moreover, if you love yourself, you will also be aware of your self-worth and you will never allow others to treat you less than you deserve.
Self-esteem is much more important than you might think. Anyone can come in and go out of your life, but you are the only constant in your life, the only one that was and will be there until the very end.
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4. Your priority should always be taking care of your health
The truth is, we all neglect health a bit in our youth. We are always in a hurry, chasing our dreams and goals for the future, and we put other things first before our health.
The point is, the best thing we can do for our future is to always prioritize taking care of your health, both mental and physical.
5. Always cherish all that you have
It’s good to always aim for more in life, but you should also cherish and be grateful for everything you have every moment.
6. Enjoy your time alone
In our youth, we don’t like to be alone often because we feel too lonely at such times. It’s only because we don’t realize the importance of spending time alone every now and then.
Once you get married, especially when you have kids, you don’t have a lot of time for yourself and you’ll regret that you didn’t take advantage of that time when you were single. You will see, then you will be grateful for every minute of your “alone time”.
7. Keep an open mind
You are so afraid to step out of your comfort zone every now and then. You don’t know what you are missing. Come on, take your life by the horns and explore it.
There is still so much, new experiences and adventures waiting for you there.