If you want to be happy and satisfied in life, you don’t need to have a boyfriend and there are women who know that. Some of us are happier on our own. Sometimes relationships are a matter of drama and it all seems too much to deal with.
For some women, being single is a blessing. They embrace their loneliness and they love their freedom. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
So, I can list you 5 very good reasons why some women prefer to ride solo:
1. They don’t want to deal with the anxiety and stress of a relationship.
Let’s be honest, dating can be such a pain in the ass, and relationships are so stressful. Some women just decide that they don’t want to deal with all of this stress and anxiety in their life. It is quite normal that we do not want to be hurt.
Some of us aren’t willing to risk getting into a bad relationship because we value our well-being too much. Fighting, codependency, dealing with emotional baggage… They all have prices that some of us don’t want to pay.
2. They are free spirits who do not like routine.
Sooner or later every relationship turns into some sort of routine. Some people like it, they find comfort in it, but some free-spirited women cannot stand the idea. They are always looking for new adventures.
Our society just has to accept the fact that we are not the same. Not all women hope and dream of settling in small suburban houses with their husbands and children. Some of us have other plans and that’s good.
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3. They don’t like engagement.
Some single women enjoy dating, but that doesn’t mean they are planning to get involved in a seriously committed relationship leading to marriage or anything like that. We all have our choices in life, and we can’t all imagine being tied to one person.
Sometimes we need more space and commitment is not what we aspire to.
4. They like other things in life.
Single girls who enjoy their single life understand that they don’t need a man to have a fulfilling life. They have other things in life to keep them happy and occupied. When I say busy I mean love to travel, flirt, hang out with friends, pursue a fantastic career.
We all have different priorities. Conventional married life becomes a priority for some women after living in a long-term relationship, but other women don’t even think about it. They are happy like that.
5. They have a happy relationship with themselves.
The relationship with yourself is the most important relationship you can have. If you want to be truly happy, you have to love yourself as much as you can.
It’s okay to be self-sufficient. There is less drama, less stress. I understand that some people feel that they can only be complete if they don’t have loved ones, but I still believe that the most important thing is to maintain a good relationship with oneself.
I don’t need a guy to be her princess. I am my own queen.
So why are we single? BECAUSE WE CAN!