Even though they are considered the best boyfriend material in the zodiac, cancer patients sometimes tend to play mind games with women to test their feelings.
Stick with me if you want to uncover some of the more obvious signs that a Cancer man is playing you.
Men with cancer are loyal, incredibly nurturing, and protective of the people they love. They are not afraid of commitment and they are pleasant to be around.
All of these unique Cancer personality traits make you think that men born under this water sign are perfect boyfriends.
A Cancer man is an incredibly sweet and romantic lover and a caring best friend wrapped up in one person which is every girl’s dream.
However, don’t be fooled by their good sides. They have certain flaws as we all actually do.
Although this doesn’t happen very often, cancer patients also know how to play games with their partners and they are actually quite good at it.
Men born under the Cancer zodiac sign can be very complicated at times. They are too sensitive and sentimental.
Also, they are known as grudge holders, so don’t hurt or betray them because they will never forget it.
4 clear signs that a Cancer man is playing you
Do you feel that your man with cancer is not being honest with you? You just can’t get rid of the awful feeling that something is really wrong in your relationship?
Then you are probably wondering, how do you know if a Cancer man is playing you? You have come to the right place and I will help you find it.
I’m going to reveal some warning signs that a Cancer man is playing you.
If you notice any of these signs, I’m sorry to have to tell you, but your cancer patient doesn’t like you; he’s just using you to get what he wants.
1. A crab man will start to distance himself
The first time you notice your Cancer man behaving in a cold and distant manner, it’s a good sign that something is wrong with your relationship. For this kind of behavior, there are two possible reasons.
Either he loses interest in you, or he just wants to play with you. A Cancer man likes to test his partner when he wants to take his relationship to the next level.
So he might test you with his aloof behavior just to see how you are going to react to it.
When in a healthy, loving relationship, a crab always wants to be with their partner all the time. He will constantly try to make her feel safe, special and protected.
This will be difficult for you because you won’t know if your Cancer man is pulling away or trying to break up with you, but it’s a red flag that something is seriously wrong.
Maybe it’s for a completely different reason, but unfortunately it’s probably because he only wants to play with you.
2. He builds walls
Again, this can be another of his tests. He’ll build a wall, a barrier between the two of you in the relationship, just to see your reaction.
You’re probably wondering how you get a Cancer man to break through these walls, and my answer is quite simple; do nothing and let him break them himself.
You shouldn’t give him the pleasure of thinking about how he wins in this game. Just try to ignore it. Of course, if this situation persists, you should confront him with what is going on.
3. It takes time alone
If you’ve been dating a man with cancer for some time, you probably know how important it is for him to spend quality time with his loved one.
If he’s playing with you, he’ll try to distance himself and most likely ask you to give him time to be alone.
Of course, you should ask him what’s going on and why he needs this alone time. If he doesn’t give you the answer, stop pressuring him because it won’t do you any good.
4. It blocks you out of nowhere
Yes, it will probably block you on social media, but that’s not what I meant here. He will try to completely block you out of his life.
When you confront him with what’s going on and ask him if that means he’s done with you, he’ll likely tell you that you are just imagining him and that everything is fine with you.
He won’t be spending as much time with you as he used to be, and you won’t be invited to any of his social gatherings.
Soon it will become pretty obvious to you that your Cancer man is playing just you, and it will certainly be difficult, but you will find that you need to end things as soon as possible.
When it comes to interrupting you on social media, he’ll do it because he just wants to drive you crazy. He knows this will bother you, and this is how he wants to provoke a negative reaction from you.
Plus, he’s probably already flirting with other women on social media and he doesn’t want you to see that.
He definitely plays you, but he also wants to keep you in his life so he can use you however he wants and when he wants.