Sometimes it is incredibly difficult to distinguish between the signs that a Gemini man loves you, the signs that he is playing you, and the signs that he is just friendly.
Even though Gemini is considered one of the more honest zodiac signs, the truth is, you can never be sure about this guy’s true intentions – especially knowing that they were born to flirt.
Geminis love to seduce women, and they are exceptionally good at it. So, how do you know if you are just one in the line of his conquests? Is he really in love with you or is he just friendly because that’s one of his personality traits?
What are the signs that a Gemini man loves you for real?
4 signs a Gemini man loves you
1. Being romantic doesn’t make him less of a man
When you first meet this guy, you’ll probably never think of him as a romantic soul. He looks like a kind of player who jumps from flower to flower without ever paying special attention to a girl.
Come on. A man has to take care of you deeply to take the trouble to make romantic gestures. But that’s exactly what’s going on between you and this man.
Believe me: if he’s really into you, you’ll see that he’s actually a hopeless romantic. He will throw surprises at you and make romantic gestures as if there is no tomorrow.
The best part is that it will be original when it comes to its romantic sides. Forget the usual things and, above all, forget that they are pathetic.
When this guy is romantic he makes quite a show of it. He’s not cheesy and he knows exactly what he’s doing to win your heart.
Remember: a Gemini is very sure of himself. He doesn’t struggle with insecurities or self-esteem issues, so he isn’t afraid to show the world how crazy he is about you.
Even though you’re a girl who’s scorned surprises and romance so far, that’s about to change. Before you know it, you and this guy will have “your” places, songs, dates and symbols.
Everything is like in the most typical romantic comedy. But somehow all the things you usually think of as tacky don’t look cheesy next to it anymore.
Suddenly you start to feel like you’re back in high school. You are in love again for the first time.
Well, it’s called Gemini magic. Let’s not forget that this man is an Eternal Boy who will teach you to love in the purest way possible – as if you’ve never experienced anything like this before.
Guess what – you didn’t because romance with a Gemini man is truly one of a kind.
2. For him, love is a talkative passion
As an air sign, Gemini is the biggest talker in the whole zodiac – no one can argue with that. While it can annoy others from time to time (because they really know how to exaggerate), let’s be honest and admit that their chatty nature is part of their charm.
So, if you’re looking for clear signs that this guy likes you, pay attention not only to the way he talks to you, but to the frequency of your conversations.
This guy just can’t help her. Even if he tries to hide his feelings, he won’t be able to control the urge to talk to you. He’s just stronger than him and there’s nothing he can do about it.
If he likes you, he’ll text you all the time – not to mention phone calls. In fact, there will be times when you find yourself chatting with him on different apps and social media platforms at the same time.
Being ruled by Mercury, he needs to share everything with you. He wants you to know every detail of his day and see every little meme he found funny that day.
But don’t worry, it will never bore you. To be honest, if another guy tried to talk to you this much, you would probably feel smothered and pissed off.
Still, let’s not forget how unique and unique a Gemini is. The truth is, you’ll find yourself anticipating their next call, even if you just hung up.
Its conversation starters and icebreakers are anything but usual. He won’t try to engage in small, ordinary conversations.
Instead, when a Gemini man takes an interest in you, you won’t have a hard time keeping up a conversation with him.
Deep conversations and secrets of the Gemini man
But just because you can casually chat with this guy doesn’t mean he’s not made for deep conversations, either. Believe me: it is.
If this man is in love with you, he will want to get to the bottom of you. It’s not that he suddenly gets curious – he just wants to talk to you about everything.
The cosmos? The meaning of life? Religion? Music? Theater? Literature? Psychology?
Your inner childhood traumas? Your personal life? Your past love experiences? Your biggest dreams and fears?
He will want to know more about each of these things and more.
3. If he stands by your side during the bad times, he deserves to be there during the good times.
Gemini are considered commitment phobes. Everyone will tell you that they have a hard time staying in one place and that they don’t know the meaning of the word loyalty.
I cannot defend their defense here. The truth is, they are primarily responsible for their bad reputation.
Nonetheless, let me tell you a little secret. They’re only like that until they find the woman they really want something serious with.
Once that happens, their behavior changes dramatically. In fact, this is when Gemini transforms into one of the most loyal signs in the entire zodiac.
First of all, let’s clarify one thing: for a Gemini, loyalty and fidelity are two different concepts. If you look at things realistically, they really aren’t the same.
Therefore, just because a Gemini likes you doesn’t mean he won’t look at other girls. Of course, I’m talking about the situation where you’re still not in a relationship or haven’t formalized things yet.
But that doesn’t mean he won’t be faithful. This guy is a loyal friend above all else.
He won’t betray you or stab you in the back no matter what. No matter what you might do to him, he will always stick to his standards and he will never do anything he finds dishonorable.
Instead, he’s the man you can always count on, especially if he feels something more for you. He’s going to turn the world upside down to help you, and he’ll never leave you hooked.
A guy belonging to the Gemini zodiac sees his loyalty as the strongest proof of his love for a woman. After all, isn’t it true?
4. He doesn’t flirt – he’s just very friendly with someone he finds attractive
There is no doubt about one thing: Gemini is the greatest flirtatious in the entire zodiac. It’s as if they have an innate talent for seducing women.
This guy doesn’t have to do much. He doesn’t have to go out of his way to interest you – in most cases, just looking at you his way.
Gemini don’t just flirt with their mouths. Even though this guy is known for his remarkable verbal skills, when he seduces you he does it with his whole body.
Eye contact, smile, hands – they all work together in his favor. His body language is so powerful that you feel like he’s the tallest man in the room as he clearly brings you down.
Since Gemini are so good with words, it should come as no surprise that they are also great with compliments. You won’t get a typical compliment like this.
He won’t just tell you, “You are beautiful.” Instead, he’ll make poetry from this seemingly simple sentence.
And he’ll make sure you know he really means it. He doesn’t give you a random compliment that every guy gives to every girl he meets – this man compliments you and pays close attention to your distinguishing features.
Tease you in a seductive way
The best part about flirting with a Gemini is, once again, their childish and fun personality. This man teases you pretty much all the time. He plays with you in the most charming way, and without even realizing it you start to participate in his fun game.
At the end of the day, you aren’t even sure what happened. Were you two flirting? Was he serious about everything he said? Was he playing you?
That’s the beauty of it all. All of these questions are consuming you, and before you know it, you can’t get it out of your head. Well, that was his plan from the start.