If one day I have to have a daughter, there is one thing I would like to teach her about love and men.
Only be with a man who acts according to his words. A man has his word, and his word makes him a man.
It’s something I know about my father, and it’s something my future husband has been practicing every day since I met him. A man who does not respect his own words will not respect mine either.
Unfortunately, this has proven to be painful in the past.
I’ll come back to this later, but for now, let’s list all the sure signs that he loves you deeply, and he’s serious about you.
1. He Makes Time For You
Life is getting busier these days. It’s hard to keep track of everything that’s going on around us – work, friends, dates, obligations to go here and there or do this and that …
We are told that plans have changed, meetings are postponed and dates are canceled.
But not with your man.
He always finds time to see you and spends time with you. If he has to cancel other plans or rearrange his schedule to see you even for five minutes, he will.
2. He Makes You Feel Safe and Protected
An unmistakable sign that a man loves you, even if he doesn’t say it, is when he makes you feel safe. This is one of his main priorities. Ignoring evolution, men have never gone beyond claiming and protecting his wife, and I’m happy about that.
Start by talking to you on the phone while you get home at night (just because he’s always at work or out of town, otherwise he’d walk by your side). Go all the way to make yourself feel safe enough to be vulnerable to it and not to be afraid of rejection and judgment because you act like yourself.
Safety is a basic need that we all feel and even if you have a black belt in some hard to pronounce Japanese martial arts, you will want a man by your side with whom you could feel safe. He will hold your hand while walking in a crowd, so he will not lose you. It won’t work, and you wouldn’t have to run to follow it, but it will be by your side in any way possible.
3. He Keeps His Promises
Now it’s time to go back to what I already mentioned about a man and his word.
A man who keeps his promises is a man who respects himself and the people around him. He will say that he will come to your house at 7 p.m. and he will come back this time. He will promise you that he will repair the sink and he will do it (in less than 6 months).
Now you know that he respects himself, his time and he respects you and your time. He’s someone you can count on and that means he loves you.
4. You Met His Friends and Family
A man who loves you is a man who wants you in his life. He not only makes sure you are safe, keeps his promises and takes time for you, but he likes to show up with you.
He is happy with his choice of wife and is looking forward to introducing his family and friends. He secretly yearns to see the woman he loves to get along with all the other people in his life.
No man will introduce you to his mother if he does not know what he wants you in his life for a very long time.
If you have already met his parents and siblings and you go out regularly with his friends, yes, he likes you and you don’t mind showing it to everyone.
5. The Man Who Loves You Enjoys Your Craziness
We are all a little crazy. Some more than others.
And I’m talking about the silly moments when you have to express yourself loud, laugh a lot and jump like a child.
A man who loves you will appreciate these moments and smile even if the day has not gone well at this stage. Plus, you won’t feel shy about being that crazy little girl around him just because he encourages you to be that way.
A sign that he loves you is when he wants to see you laugh and be happy, overly energized and inspired to live. Your man also knows that he is part of this happiness.
6. He Avoids Judging You When You Go … the other crazy side of you
All right, girls, it’s time to speak honestly about such days of the month.
75% of us suffer from PMS and 20% to 40% experience real difficulties as a result of this.
I am one of them.
And if you’re like me, you refer to the following things:
you know you’re b ** ch for a few days, and you’re aware of everything you say and do, and it’s wrong, however, the control seems to be out of your hands, and it’s not like if you don’t try to control yourself.
all of this makes you feel guilty and angry with yourself …
… Which makes it worse
Our men have to take us home with the full package, just like when we marry them, we know we say yes to a lot of things that we don’t usually agree with (like picking up socks from everywhere in the house for the rest of your life). life).
A man who loves you may not understand why the sweet girl who loves to cuddle and kiss her all the time, turns into a time bomb who quietly sits in the corner and waits for him to spoil her the sons. He may not understand it, but he has to accept it and find his bearings.
I know it’s asking too much of him, but if he doesn’t follow the worst of you, why would you bother showing him the best? (this is something Marilyn Monroe said, not me).
If instead of answering you, your guy smiles and says “Oh, one of these days, huh?” Or just ignore your madness and try to stay away from you for a few hours, it’s a sign that he’s ready to fight for you and he loves you.
I am amazed at how my partner handles this day or two each month. He just starts making jokes about me until I start laughing, then he says he loves me and leaves me alone to face myself in peace. When I am again, I crawl in his arms and I live happily ever after. (or until the next wave)
Warning: Let me mention that there is a difference between “cranky for a few days” and “make him pay for everything he could do in the next ten years”. The first is acceptable and manageable, the second could be a sign of hormonal imbalance, and I would recommend that you speak to your GP.
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7. He Supports Your Dreams
I would not even try to imagine my life with someone who does not support my dreams. It must be very difficult to feel the pressure to choose between the person you love and the thing you think you should do.
By following this lead, I could say that the person with whom you are supposed to support your dreams. And if he cannot support them financially (without obligations), he will encourage you to continue to do what makes you happy.
You see, no matter who is in your life, whether it is a partner or a parent, the first indication of true love is to let you go your way, whatever that means.
And it’s the best sign that your guy loves you deeply.
8. He Appreciates Your Advice
And he appreciates it even if he doesn’t follow it.
A man who loves not only your body but also your mind is a guardian. He wants you to be fully involved in his life, and asking for your opinion is essential.
A sign that he loves you is not the fact that he follows your advice, but the fact that he listens to you while giving it and heeding it.
We women often tend to believe that if a man does not follow what we say, he does not like us. At the same time, by denying him the right to choose, we are disrespectful to him. Remember that the next time he gives advice, he doesn’t want to follow.
9. He Treats You Like A Lady
Placing rose petals under your feet may not be his thing, but your man treats you like a lady.
You feel nourished and respected. He kisses your forehead, holds your hand and touches you gently. He just loves you even if he doesn’t say it. The sweet feeling that you are treated like a princess is not something I could explain, but if you are treated like a princess, you know what I am talking about.
You are his lady, and he takes care of you, he is gentle, listens to you, respects you, kisses you often and kisses you from time to time. You, my dear, are a lady in her eyes and I can only congratulate you on your choice of man. Keep it; there are not many there.
10. The Compromises Come From Both Sides
I have never been a fan of compromise. The truth is that I believe that when two people really love each other and go in the same direction in life, there is not much room for compromise or at least you would not feel it as such.
And even if I am firmly against big compromises (like whether you marry or not, whether you have children or not, whether you support each other or not), I know that little ones are part of the daily life of couples.
Therefore, a huge sign that your man loves you is when you see that the compromises don’t come only from your side. We women often like to sacrifice our happiness in the name of human happiness and prefer to be uncomfortable, but “spare him the pain”. And as far as I know, many women support it; they make the same choices from time to time.
No problem with that. Love is not something that has to be comfortable. Love is a journey and, like any journey, it has its challenges.
However, you know that you are not the only one to compromise, and it is a real sign that your guy loves you deeply. Men never willingly compromise their comfort unless it is worth it. Or the person for whom they do it. They are logical beings, which makes it easier for us to know why they do what they do.
11. He wants Everything With You and You Both Walk Towards It
Pretty cool, huh?
A man who loves you deeply and who undoubtedly wants you in his life does not need to think twice about the next step. If he wants a future with you, he lets you know. You both create your dreams and build your future together in a way that works for both of you.
An obvious sign that a man loves you is when he wants you to be in his life, so he asks you to move in with him. If you are already living together, he is waiting for the perfect time to ask you to marry him; he talks about children (if these are things you both want) and does not hesitate to draw imaginary images of the house of your dreams on the ceiling above your bed. He’s a man who loves you, my dear.
12. You Didn’t Really Need To Read This Article To Know If He Loves You Deeply
The last of my best signs that your man loves you is that you already know that.
You know he loves you.
Not because it tells you every 5 minutes (even if you like the sound), but because you feel it with every cell in your body. His love for you screams in his eyes, runs through your veins every time he touches you. His embrace is so comforting that you would die willingly on the spot. He is fighting for you. He claims his feelings in every decision he makes about his life.
It’s right there. And you know it.