While sex remains very important to most men, many simply want to feel more affection. Whether it’s holding your hand in public, leaving a love message on your voicemail, or massaging your shoulders – showing that you care for them through actions of tenderness will touch their hearts.
Try different ways to show how much you care about him by being warm. Simple things you can do include telling him how much you love him, encouraging him when he feels doubtful, and telling him that you’re sorry when things go wrong. You can always go ahead and give her an unexpected kiss.
BELIEF IN HIS CAPABILITIES
Many men think it is important for them to protect and provide for those they love. Let your husband know that you believe in and support his talents and skills. Your encouragement is the most significant of anyone.
The most crucial thing you can do is to make your man feel like a man and not like a little boy. Test what makes it vibrate by giving it a bit of control (like you’re comfortable). For example, you can try to let him order for you the next time you go out to eat or give him directions. Little things like this build trust between you two and give him a sense of responsibility in the relationship.
Men want to know that you “get” them. They are often more logical and like to solve problems. This has value and creates a balance between women who are generally more emotional and in touch with their feelings.
One of the ways to show that you understand each other is to commit to talking together every day. Plan a daily dialogue exercise where you take 20 minutes to ask yourself positive questions. This could include things about what attracts you to each other, your favorite date together or your partner’s favorite quality.
One way to do this is to praise your husband often. Rather than overdoing it, make sure it is authentic and sporadic throughout the week. Do simple things like:
- Tell your husband that you appreciate how hard he works and how proud are you of him.
- Thank him for the way he takes care of the family.
- Tell your husband how good he looks in this shirt.
- Embrace him and tell him that you really admire him as a person.
We all want to be accepted for who we are and don’t want others to try to change us. Men are often hurt and irritated when their wives try to change them, in particular. If it concerns their health and safety, that’s understandable, but superficial features are not necessary to make it appear.
You can show him how much you accept him for who he is right now by:
- See his faults and love him anyway.
- Learn how we can accept ourselves so that we can accept our husbands.
- Be comfortable with the difference with our partner.
- Commit to agreeing to disagree on the arguments.
- Letting go of different activities, opinions or policies.
If your husband is tired, involved in a project, or generally not ready to chat, don’t push him. Women can be particularly chatty at times, so it’s important to take the time to talk with your husband. Consider expressing yourself further with your friends, other family members, or in other ways like art, journaling, and online forums.
You certainly don’t want a relationship where you never speak. Communication is important, so when you really want to chat and get intimate, contact him to see if he’s ready. If he’s busy, you may need to schedule time with him so you can get back on track.
Creating a romantic and memorable marriage begins with respect. One of the best ways for a woman to show her husband that she loves and respects him is to listen actively to him when he speaks and not to interrupt him.
You can also show respect by:
- Avoid making negative comments about your thoughts and opinions.
- Be considerate of future plans.
- Choose not to use eye-rolling when you disagree with it.
- Be generally positive, appreciative and attentive to their wants and needs.
Almost everyone wants a moment of tranquility alone and a moment to rejuvenate, regroup and reconnect with themselves.
When your husband comes home from work for the first time, you can give him this space by allowing him to relax without chatting or questions. During his days off, be attentive to his schedule by not planning too many activities. If you really want to do something with your husband on the weekends, consider choosing a day on the weekend or making plans every other weekend.
Confidence is essential to the success of a marriage. Couples build confidence in healthy relationships by being honest with each other, communicating often and learning to fight fairly. It takes time to build trust. Over the years, you will learn to keep your promises, to be yourself and to show how much you love and appreciate yourself.
If you have doubts about your husband and find it difficult to trust him, seek advice and do not engage in activities like infidelity.
I hope you can say that your husband is not only your lover but also your friend. To stay friends and companions over the years, you need to find ways to spend quality time to be together and have new experiences.
Marrying your best friend also means being attentive to the way you talk to each other, not taking it for granted and making small sacrifices to please you. Train yourself to use kind words, show your gratitude for him daily and choose to watch his favorite local sports game instead of your favorite show.